When Did Handjobs Become So Darn Trendy?


Ah, the handjob. A once considered slum sexual act has suddenly become a popular fetish. To be clear, the handjob was always a fetish as much as it is a kink. But because the handjob has always been painted as a 1st base sex option, it has often endured undeserving criticism.

The truth is, handjobs are fun. More truth? Handjobs offer an exciting, safer-sex, even more sensual and orgasmic, sexual experience. And people are beginning to realize this.

Sometime around last year, a handjob dating sites began to grow in popularity. How could this be? An entire site dedicated to adult women giving handjobs?

Was not only a decade ago that handjobs were considered a sort of basement, inferior sex act? The handjob was always viewed as the sex act a woman gives a man when she doesn’t want to give a blowjob, or have sex. The handjob was simple to deploy, got the guy off, required less work, and didn’t ask much intimacy.

But alas, times are changing.

Handjob popularity is rising. Even some porn game sites are blogging about couples playing sex games and exchanging handjobs. Yes, the Internet is a weird, perverse, and I guess, sometimes fun place.

If an entire site for handjob dating exists, what does that say about handjobs in general?

Certainly, it speaks to the idea that handjobs aren’t exactly the inferior sex act we once thought.

Instead, it means that the handjob is a veritable fun sexual adventure.

Further, we can now say that people seek the handjob more than just accept it as “the best they can do.”

Why Are Handjobs Awesome?

So this leads us to the obvious. Why are handjobs so awesome? Could a handjob really be better than a blowjob?

In short, there are many men who prefer the handjob to the blowjob as insane as that may feel to you. Handjobs can often result in intense orgasms. This is because using the hand offers more precision than the mouth or vagina. Depending on the handjob grip or technique, the lead up to orgasm can be a slow ascent or a rocket ship to the moon. Dealer’s choice (in this case, the dealer is the handjob giver).

Handjobs allow a variety of fun add ons, like lotions and coconut oil. You can make intimate eye contact while experiencing the handjob. You can get your erotica talk on while the handjob goes down. Both the handjob giver and handjob receiver can relax in a comfortable position.

When you control tempo and hand speed during the handjob, you control how long and how powerful a guy’s orgasm is.

And clearly, folks are catching on to the fun. Popular culture, such as TV shows and movies, are featuring more handjob storylines. The masses are beginning to realize that the handjob is more of a primary sexual fetish than it is a basement dwelling sex act.

Long may that continue.